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I think the reference point can be more personal than just that. The Motor is like the person you have chosen to live with. The two of you had better be able to get along, plus adore and compliment each other when no one is watching. Imagine a spouse that you can only just tolerate... or can only just tolerate YOU! Ouch! Worse than that, a wayward temperamental partner could cost you half of what you own. Ideal would be one that can bring out the best in you because you think and sync in similar ‘circles’ (haha, pun intended).
The Battery is what they want and what you need to bring when you go out for a picnic. The skinny ones will get up the hill with just couscous. Others may need a box of chocolates for motivation... or maybe some beer. What? It’s just an analogy!
Everything else about the bike is about poise. The wardrobe, make-up, jewellery, endless pairs of shoes, gym membership, trips to the salon, etc... that’s all for show and tell.
Then you can join this forum and brag or bitch about ’the one’ you’re with! .